Well a lot of single mothers are only in the lurch because somebody else has left them there. My partners ex left her for somebody else when she was pregnant...hence why he has absolutely nothing to do with the little un.
He’s disabled, she’s a full time carer but she still goes out to work (not for the money but to occupy herself from going insane and to be motivated) bless her. She can’t do any gardening as little un needs 24/7 care.
when we met she needed help, a lot of it.
I’m the closest thing to a father little mans ever had, nobody else would give him a chance with his disability. I’ve worked all my life since i was 11...paper rounds followed by chip shops followed by plumbing, catering, and now this. I try my damdest to save up for our own place but its hard saving on your own and a long time coming.
we can’t afford to offcially live together, get married, and are probably not even eligible for a mortgage considering our circumstances. so realistcally the only option is to keep saving until i’m dead and put down a cash offer i guess.
But we know what we’ve got. Love. And what more is there, really?
I don’t have a thing to my name other than this business but in 15 years of working i’ve worked full time and paid my taxes, as has she when she could. Just because we are young (ish) and on the fringes of existence doesn’t mean we haven’t tried or don’t try.
One day hell i may end up homeless but i tell you what i’d still be out there Trad on a ladder because i have to work it keeps me from going insane.
He’s disabled, she’s a full time carer but she still goes out to work (not for the money but to occupy herself from going insane and to be motivated) bless her. She can’t do any gardening as little un needs 24/7 care.
when we met she needed help, a lot of it.
I’m the closest thing to a father little mans ever had, nobody else would give him a chance with his disability. I’ve worked all my life since i was 11...paper rounds followed by chip shops followed by plumbing, catering, and now this. I try my damdest to save up for our own place but its hard saving on your own and a long time coming.
we can’t afford to offcially live together, get married, and are probably not even eligible for a mortgage considering our circumstances. so realistcally the only option is to keep saving until i’m dead and put down a cash offer i guess.
But we know what we’ve got. Love. And what more is there, really?
I don’t have a thing to my name other than this business but in 15 years of working i’ve worked full time and paid my taxes, as has she when she could. Just because we are young (ish) and on the fringes of existence doesn’t mean we haven’t tried or don’t try.
One day hell i may end up homeless but i tell you what i’d still be out there Trad on a ladder because i have to work it keeps me from going insane.